History eerily repeats itself when it comes to traumatic matters of the heart---unless you know how to stop the cycle?!! Jonah was hated by his college football coach, and Jonah's daughter, Sydney experienced the exact same thing with her basketball coach! This is the "Twilight Zone" at its best! Seventeen year old, Sydney, clearly the best defensive player on her team, sat the bench for 2 years, and cried to both her parents on many occasions. She desperately wanted to quit, but because of her ability to shift her mindset with the relentless support from her parents---she perseveres, not just by winning the state championships, but for the rest of her life, by setting the precedent for her future! The lesson we all can learn from Sydney is that she did not let her worst critics stop her from achieving greatness within herself. By quitting, nobody wins -- especially her....At the end of the day, she gets to take this SELF-Victory with her! Jonah talks about reliving this nightmare, and the pain of watching his first born child go through that very same anguish. Parents ~ pay attention! Facing our harshest critics, and not allowing their opinions to tarnish our future is key! Reframing what appears to be a personal ambush by giving it your all for yourself, FIRST, is the only way to stop the cycle of sabotage. Because of Jonah & his wife's incredible heart & mindsets, they were able to instill this in their daughter to become triumphant in the face of massive controversy & conflict. It's never too late to learn how to powerfully and sustainably shift your ability to endure and persevere through any hardship. Don't reinvent the wheel?!! Retrain your brain now, and #InventYourDestiny for the rest of your life! Join us for personal attention during our 3-Day retreat #CaveTimeSummits!! Email KarenLoveLee@gmail.com for all the details. Review & rate us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/invent-your-destiny-karen/id1072257113, and we'll personally thank you, and give a "Shout Out" on our podcast!